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The number one thing you can do as a parent to help teach your child to read is to read to them. The number one thing as a parent you can do for the world is to raise your child to be a responsible caring adult . Parenting is a challenge on good days but mixing lessons not just about concepts but about character with reading time is a shortcut that works. Books are a wonderful tool to reinforce tough to grasp lessons and to open the door for discussions that we aren’t always sure how to approach with our kids. All these books teach lessons, have messages or open the floor for discussions without being preachy . Click through titles for full reviews.
- Shelia Rae, The Brave by Kevin Henkes
- The Family Book by Todd Parr
- Let Them Play by Margo Theis Raven
- Something From Nothing by Phoebe Gilman
- Ballerino Nate by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley
- Apple Pie Fourth Of July by Janet S. Wong
- A Chair For My Mother by Vera B Williams
- The Gardener by Sarah Stewart
- Pinkalicious by Victoria and Elizabeth Kann
- The Loudest Roar by Thomas Taylor
- Hilda Must Be Dancing by Karma Wilson
- I Remember Miss Perry by Pat Brisson
- Looking For Sleepy by Meribeth Boelts
- Pablo’s Tree by Pat Mora
- The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn
- The Little Red Hen Makes A Pizza by by Philomen Sturges
- The Very Busy Spider by Eric Carle
- Murmel, Murmel, Murmel by Robert Munsch
- Bob and Otto by Robert O. Bruel
- Ordinary Amos And The Amazing Fish by Eugenie and Henry Fernandes
- Alexander And The Terrible Horrible No Good Very Bad Day by Judith Viorst
- Stephanie’s Ponytail by Robert Munsch
- Piglet and Papa by Margaret Wild
- First Day Jitters by Julie Danneberg
- Where The Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
- Valentine’s Day by Anne Rockwell
- A Picture Book Of Helen Keller by David A. Adler
- Fish is Fish by Leo Lionni
- The Bus For Us by Suzanne Bloom
- Every Cowgirl Needs A Horse by Rebecca Janni
- Bear Stays Up At Christmas by Karma Wilson
- Duck On A Bike by David Shannon
- Cowboy Camp by Tammi Sauer
- The List by Hazel Hutchins
- Scaredy Squirrel Makes A Friend by Melanie Watt
- Julius The Baby Of The World by Kevin Henkes
- Rosa By Nikki Giovanni
- The Pirate Of Kindergarten by George Ella Lyon
- Is There Really A Human Race? by Jamie Lee Curtis
- A Father Like That by Charlotte Zolotow
- Whoever You Are by Mem Fox
- Freckleface Strawberry by Julianne Moore
- The Way Back Home by Oliver Jeffers
- Sink or Swim by Valerie Coulman
- The Princess and The Pizza by Mary Jane and Herb Auch
- I Want To Be A Cowgirl by Jeanne Willis
- No! David by David Shannon
- My Brother Martin by Christine King Farris
- It’s Mine by Leo Lionni
- Ben’s Trumpet by Rachel Isadora
- One Duck Stuck by Phyllis Root
- How To Catch A Star by Oliver Jeffers
- My Best Friend Moved Away by Nancy Carlson
- The Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munsch
- The Boy Who Grew Flowers by Jennifer Wojtowicz
- Edwardo the Horriblest Boy in the Whole Wide World by John Burningham
- Wemberly Worried by Kevin Henkes
- Music Over Manhattan by Mark Karlins
- I Love You Stinky Face by Lisa McCourt
- Zip, Zip… Homework by Nancy Poydar
- Tacky The Penguin by Helen Lester
- Did I Tell You I Love You Today? by Deloris Jordan
- Hair For Mama by Kelly A. Tinkham
- I Don’t Want To Go To Bed by Julia Sykes
- Owen by Kevin Henkes
- The Sissy Duckling by Harvey Fierstein
- Snuggle Puppy by Sandra Boyton
- Princess Smartypants by Brenda Cole
- Dad, Jackie and Me by Myron Ulberg
- Giraffes Can’t Dance by Giles Andreae
- Click Clack Moo , Cows That Type by Doreen Cronin
- A Kiss Goodbye by Audrey Penn
- A Very Big Bunny by Marisabina Russo
- The Grumpy Morning by Pamela Duncan Edwards
- One Green Apple by Eve Bunting
What books do you think should have made the list?
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No Seuss!? No Lorax, or Sneeches, or Horton?!
I’ll add some by popular demand in the follow up but I am not a Seuss fan.
Dr. Seuss’ books build character in ways that are woefully under-represented in our culture. When we think about books that “build character” we tend to think in terms of tangible behavioral lessons (e.g. sharing, acceptance, honesty, etc.) rather than developing a child’s imagination for it’s own sake. In books like “The Sleep Book” or “Happy Birthday To You” Dr. Seuss opens kids’ eyes to how unlimited the human imagination can be, a lesson which can have a huge impact on one’s creative intelligence throughout his or her life.
Don’t forget Rainbow Fish!
Thank you very much for bringing up Rainbow Fish , lots of people adore that book.I purposefully didn’t mention it. I am not that book’s biggest fan. I find it sad that Rainbow Fish gives away all his scales and looses his uniqueness. Any class I have ever read it to though it’s been a great book to start a discussion .
What’s your take? What do you love about it?
Awesome list! We love the Ladybug Girl series. Re: Rainbow Fish, we’re not fans in our home, think the book sends a terrible message.
Elmer by David McKee is similar to this story, but goes about the subject a much better way. It celebrates similarities and differences in the end.
Check it out! It’s my all time favorite children’s book.
Love Elmer – I have taught with it and I agree it’s such a sweet message. I even reviewed it on my other blog. I think there may be a Part 2 to this list at some point.
Elmer is one of my favorites too. I have used it every year for so many themes. It is so positive.
I’m glad I’m not the only one who does not like Rainbow Fish. I understand the message the book was trying to convey, but when I first read it I thought that it was awful he had to give all his shiny scales away in order for the other fish to like him. We’ll be your friends, but only if you give us stuff…um, no. Yes, he was mean and yes friends are more important than things, but I just thought this wasn’t the best way to show that message.
I agree about Rainbow Fish and I feel the same way about Tikko (Lionne) Giving away what makes them special because people laugh at them/feel bad about themselves/are jealous is not a great message. However, it is a great conversation to have, because kids to feel that way (what is FAIR?) so having a book that speaks to that is nice.
Thank you for the great list! And this great let’s have fun while playing to learn! Thanks for sharing your take on “the Rainbow Fish.” It is good to see different points of view. What a great discussion question you pose “How do you share without losing you?”/ A professor shared a different point of view concerning “The Giving Tree”
I love reading all the comments and plan on doing a follow up post after I track down every suggested book that I don’t own . I hope you come back to check it out.
Thank you for the list. I will use it to begin a collection for our first grandchild who will be born in June. I am a retired teacher and one book that I loved to share with students and contains a valuable lesson about the value of the elderly is “Wilfrid Gordon McDonald Partridge” by Mem Fox Illustrated by Julie Vivas. It is a precious story of the pure love of a child for the old people who lived next door. “He wasn’t very old either.”
I also thought it was very sad that he gave away his scales. To me he had to change who he was to fit in. I only read that book once to my children
I think you missed the point of The Rainbow Fish. The Rainbow Fish thought she was better than everyone else because she was pretty and shiny. The book is about being nice and sharing and in the end she kept one scale for herself after sharing her scales with others. It’s important to teach children that what you look like on the outside isn’t the most important but your actions. Children will run into other children who are sick or have been hurt with permant lasting scars and they need to know that those children are just as beautiful even if they aren’t “shiny”.
My take on Rainbow Fish is that the fish gave of himself, with no thought to himself. It was a selfless act, giving away his colorful scales. And, if it made him happy to make others happy, that’s not a sad thing at all. My Christian faith teaches me to give without regard to myself. In the end, that’s love.
Rainbow Fish makes me sad. I believe it sends the wrong message. Namely, that it is not ok to be beautiful and that you must give away pieces of yourself until you are no longer fully you in order to be accepted.
That is a great way to sum up my opinion about it too.
My daughter Story and I love to read at night before bedtime. We like to read Harold and the Purple Crayon, If you Give a Mouse a Cookie, and The Monster at the End of the Book but the last book we read every night is The Going to Bed Book.
I was going to name my child Story. So lovely. (Instead my daughter’s middle name is Poem.)
My husband hated Monster at the End of the Book, and would not read it, because Grover is so terrified, and the reader is essentially punishing him by turning the pages. He doesn’t think the end justifies the means, and I think he’s got a point; it made me look at the book in a new way.
I didn’t care for Julius Baby of the World; Lilly is hateful toward her brother. I prefer Lilly in her Purple Plastic Purse outing.
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My daughter’s name is Story! She loves “story time”!
I think Naked Mole Rat Gets Dressed teaches the value of open-mindedness and individuality.
Love Books by Mo Willems, Naked Mole Rat gets Dressed Knuffle Bunny and the Elephant and piggy series! Also love when Sophie gets Angry for how to deal with anger.
I was about to comment and say, “I’m so glad Rainbow Fish wasn’t on the list”!
I do have to recommend “Miss Rumphius” though! Also “A Fairy Went A-Market.” Both books are absolutely wonderful with gorgeous art, lovely lessons, great writing, awesome role models and nothing beating kids over the head with preachiness.
Great list!
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miss rumphius! we LOVE book! my daughter is 12 now and we still read it. also, the country bunny and the little gold shoes. and the ladybug girl series are so good. another one we like is “the princess knight”. we love our strong confident girls!
ah, building literacy through reading is important but to find books that are building other important life characteristics.. amazing! I also like hooway for wodney wat
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Mrs. Rumphius for sure and The Star Child by Brothers Grimm, beautiful story.
The Empty Pot for honesty
Excellent list! Another one I love is Stand Tall Molly Lou Melon by Patty Lovell
Yes great great book!
I can’t wait to dig into this list, there are new books on here that we have not read
THANK YOU for sharing! Curious as to why you didn’t include The Giving Tree? We also really enjoy: Armando and the Blue Tarp School, Happy Birthday Moon, I Can Save the Earth has been really helpful in environmental awareness (turning off lights, water, etc.), and the bilingual books: In My Family/En Mi Familia and Gathering the Sun. It is so hard to limit it to just a few… I love your list though, again, thank you for sharing 
I have never read my kids The Giving Tree – shocking right?! I don’t own it and always forget to grab it at the library ( I am distracted by new books too often). I own a large collection of other Shel Silverstien and so enjoy him. It sounds like it deserves a spot!
I respectfully disagree about The Giving Tree. I cannot stand that book! To my mind, it it a horrible story about a little boy who takes and takes and takes and a tree who gives of herself and allows herself to be bullied and abused until there is (almost literally) nothing left of her. I thnk we own every other piece Shel Silverstein ever wrote (including some of his very adult works), but NOT that one!
I do agree about the story being very sad, but I use it as a teaching tool to show my kids that you can take and take unitl there is nothing left, and it is not the right thing to do. It also teaches that the tree truly loves the boys because she gives until there is nothing left. I feel like this book built more character in myself than any other growing up. In life, there will always be boys, and there will always be trees, unfortunately.
I don’t think you can say that about The Giving Tree. If you are freely giving yourself, you aren’t being abused or bullied into it. The boy is not demanding anything from the tree. The tree is freely giving of itself because it loves the boy. Do you feel abused and bullied by your children when they ask you to give them things? No, you give because you love. This is a story that teaches to give in love and not in selfishness.
The Giving Tree is a story that I read to my students and my own children. While I can see how you feel, I have to share that my youngest son gave me a copy of the book for Christmas when he was in his early 20′s. I was a bit surprised. Then I read what he wrote to me in the front cover. He told me that he felt he needed to thank me for all that I had done for him through the years. And while he may still need my help throughout life, he wanted me to let me know that he loved me and thanked me for all I’d done for him. He wanted to let me know that he was aware of it and to let me know that he would be there for me too.It made my heart smile. <3
(edited)Your comment made me tear up. I’ve always thought of the tree as a mother or grandmother to the boy. And as a mother, I know the feeling of giving everything to a child to make them happy. I DO think it cold easily be interpreted some of the other ways people see it, but I choose to see it the way you and your son have. I love that he did that for you, it just proves to me that you made a difference with your giving.
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A Bad Case of the Stripes by David Shannon I know he has a few others on the list but a great story about being yourself!
I had it on there and was debating between it and Duck on A Bike , a great book for sure!
I love many of these. One that I thought was “missing” was The Lorax. I think its a great environmental book.
I completely agree – “The Lorax” is a wonderful story to teach environmental responsibility. I also think that another Dr. Seuss book. “Oh the Places You’ll Go!” has a great message about independence and perseverance.
Completely agree with both of you! love those books and “I can read with my eyes shut” by Dr. Seuss.
two books that i would like to see added or maybe on another list would be
“My Princess Boy” by Cheryl Kilodavis and “And Tango Makes Three” by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell. They are incredible books!
And Tango Makes Three! Is a great story and I still need to read “My Princess Boy” but I haven’t heard anything but raves reviews.
I highly recommend The Royal Bee. It is a great story about never giving up.
Agree completely about Muss Rumphius and also The Empty Pot. Am not a big fan if Rainbow Fish or The Giving Tree – don’t care for the endings. How about Love You Forever and Just the Way You Are? And The Keeping Quilt? Along Came Eric ? And Gregory the Terrible Eater?
I want to go read right now!
My boys are 17 and 13 and still big readers. Amazing how I only recognize about half of these because fabulous books are coming out all the time. Thanks for this list!
Thanks for the list! Another great book is Enemey Pie.
I Will Love You Forever….cant believe that didnt make the list!!!!
Kim – I debated. I love the book but when I asked readers last year which book they dislike the most it was the winner by a mile. Glad you like it I love it too!
How could “I Love You Forever” be most disliked?? One of my favorites and a must on my list!
I love it too Trish but so many find it creepy , check out this thread for their thoughts. http://www.notimeforflashcards.com/category/books-people-hate
I thought it was a little creepy at first, but my son fell in love with it. It’s been 4 years since we first read it together and he still tells me (and his father) every night, “Love you forever, like you forever.” Now that he’s older, and we are reading with his little sister, we just laugh like crazy at how silly his mom is for driving across town to his home. I mean really, she climbs a ladder!! They know it’s just a story
We like Fancy Nancy. The Fabulous Fashion Boutique, Splendiferous Christmas, and Bonjour Butterfly are good ones.
“I Will Love You Forever” has always creeped me out…do we really want a symbiotic relationship with our parents? That’s how I took it…but I’m also aware that someone’s reaction to the book is very subjective. As a “girl” who just turned sixty, I don’t think I want my son creeping into my room and cradling me in his arms. I’d rather go peacefully and independently into the night, and hope my children remember my spirit rather than the “bag of bones” in their arms. Just saying.
Thank you Judith – this comment is among my favorites ever !
How can anyone think I Love you Forever is creepy?! I love that book, I think the message is how much love the mother has for her son, and in return his love for his mom, and how no matter how old a person is that it never changes. Anyways just my opinion:)
Another book we love is The Velveteen Rabbit by Margery Williams? Such a sweet story, I don’t know what life lesson it would teach but it’s a cute book regardless.
Thanks for this list. The timing is perfect since it is anti-bullying day on Wednesday. Instead of class discussions with the litany of don’t – don’t push, don’t use bad words, don’t budge, don’t kick – I want to read and talk about how to make good choices and live peaceably in community with others. I will be grabbing some of the books on your list from my shelves for reading together this week.
I have mixed feelings about Rainbow Fish and The Giving Tree. I wish that Rainbow Fish could have kept his uniqueness while losing his sense of superiority. While The Giving Tree is beautifully written, it is a rather co-dependent relationship.
A favourite of mine that was not on the list is The Quiltmaker’s Gift – beautifully written and illustrated story. I read it over a couple of days to my kindergarten kids every year.
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I second the Quilt Makers Gift!
Agreed! The Quiltmaker’s Gift is one of our favorites!
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I recommend “Crow Boy” for teaching children not to judge those that look different. Very powerful and poignant.
Oh the places you’ll go! Dr. Seuss
Should have made the list!!!!!
Everyone Knows What a Dragon Looks Like by Jay Williams
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I am wondering if you are aware of a book where a lead character (preferable girl) wears glasses. My daughter wears glasses and has recently been told by a friend during dress-up play that princesses don’t wear glasses. Now we are having issues with her not wanting to wear her glasses and she is noting that none of her favorite characters in movies or books wear glasses. I am trying to find a book with a girl lead that is a good role model that is not teased for wearing glasses. Any books I have found seem to be focused more on the lead character overcoming being teased for her glasses and I don’t want my daughter to come to expect that her glasses will mean that she will be teased.
The books that came to my mind are Princess Peepers by Pam Calvert and Who Wears Glasses by Ana Galen and then also any Arthur Book as he has glasses. However looking for more for you I found this http://littlefoureyes.com/books-for-kids/#characters they have reviews and a great list of books! I hope that helps.
Ballerina’s don’t wear glasses is a good one.
I love Mo Willems’ Knuffle Bunny books. “Knuffle Bunny Free” is wonderful!
For girls. . .Chrysanthemum
For boys. . .I Love You Stinky Face
I love you Stinky Face is on there- I just read it for the 400th time yesterday, it’s a fave! Kevin Henkes is probably my favorite author for this subject, his stories and messages are seamless. Kids enjoy them and learn.
I<3 you, stinky face, while entertaining, seems to me to encourage name calling and the use of impolite words. There are arguably better choices on the nature of this type of love, I think–including The Giving Tree, which is, apparently, controversial. In any case, I'm not sure that many of the "love" books fall into the category of "character building" (self esteem, maybe?)
I see I Love You Stinky Face as a way to face adversity the child is challenging his mom not only to love unconditionally but how to deal with the realities of him being different and in many cases troublesome in each case.
I love the Rainbow Fish personally: in a way, if you see it as a version of the traditional parable of the “talents”, he could be seen as having ‘talents’ (in the form of his scales) and by keeping them, others are losing out on being able to share in the expression of his talent. Another viewpoint is that its a haves/have nots notion: if you have a *lot* of something and you someone else with very little, it is a sign of a strong character if you share. I don’t think the book is too moralistic about it either, which is always good.
On Munsch’s Love You Forever, it is another favourite of mine. This said, I know the back-story to why he wrote it and what it is about and that makes it near and dear to me as another who has gone through a similar experience. This said, I cannot read it without crying and it is more a book *for me* than for kids (I think it leaves *a lot* of questions for them).
I personally *adore* The Kissing Hand–so happy to see it on your list–and the Scaredy Squirrel series too. My own add-on would be The Gruffalo, about the little tenacious mouse taking on his bigger “scarier” foes one at a time.
I love love you forever as well and Kissing Hand was vital for teaching preschool, it helped countless children conquer separation anxiety in my classes. I like your take on Rainbow Fish as well, great perspective.
The Gruffalo would be a wonderful addition the list .
Hi! I have written a great book that teaches children to have the courage to be who they are. It’s a two time award-winner! Spaghetti In A Hot Dog Bun by Maria Dismondy. I have written other books on bullying and self-esteem as well. PS I think you will love my new Linky Party—it will begin the first Monday of April. Stay tuned at my blog! http://www.mariadismondy.com/blog
Maria – I am so thrilled you commented I have heard your name a bunch since publishing this post… at 2am! I am so excited to read your books.
Pickle Chiffon Pie by Jolly Roger Bradfield, a favorite from my childhood that I now love to share with my son.
I Like Myself by Karen Beaumont is a great story about liking yourself for who you are!
One of my favorites that I think teaches a great lesson is “The Big Orange Splot,” though the author escapes me at the moment. The man’s house is just like everyone else’s on the street, until a bird drops orange paint on his roof, eventually everyone changes their house to match their dreams and the things they love! Dare to be different!
Love you forever! It was my favorite book growing up! I read it to my daughter every night.
Love you forever by robert munsch….my favorite
Every year I read, “The Orange Shoes” by Trinka Hakes Noble to my fourth graders. And I cry…every time!
I have always loved “William’s Doll” by Charlotte Zolotow.
‘A Sick Day for Amos McGee’ is one of our favourites right now.
The Okay Book by Todd Parr… Wonderful book.
Thank you so much for this! I haven’t heard of many of these books. I’m glad to find good company in the anti-rainbow fish club! Sometimes our talents set us apart and even isolate us and we have to learn how to deal with it in healthy ways.
I saw you had Is There Really A Human Race? by Jamie Lee Curtis have you read big words for little people by her it is favorite in our house.
I love the list!
I would have loved to have seen one of Maria Dismondy’s books on the list; Spaghetti in a Hotdog Bun or The Juicebox Bully.
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I wrote both these titles down to review asap!
My favourites are, “The Book of Mean People” by Toni and Slade Morrison and “I’m Gonna Like Me!” by Jamie Lee Curtis. Excellent!
I have a problem with books that use words like “gonna.” I love the story, but bad grammar or spelling in books reinforces bad habits or confuses early reader/writers. There are several books out there that I “correct” as I read. Properly punctuated dialog is different, though. There *is* a difference between spoken and written language. (But I love this list – and the comments leading to more great books!)
One of our new favorites, that we just recently discovered, is “Bugs in a Blanket” by Beatrice Alemagna. It’s a sweet story about accepting people who are different from you, and embracing your own uniqueness.
This is a great list !
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I can’t believe that The Little Engine That Could didn’t make the list!
That’s a great addition .
Guess How Much I Love You by Sam Mac Bratney great daddy time book, How Full Is Your Bucket -For Kids by Tom ?.
My favorite book didn’t make the list: The Empty Pot by Demi. A wonderful story about honesty and integrity.
I agree. The Empty Pot by Demi is beautifully and simply written, with a powerful message.
Charlie the Caterpillar – awesome. About friendship, being unique, loyalty. My Kindergarteners always loved it – and so do I!!
This book is wonderful. I, too, think it should be added to the list!
Hello, love that I found your blog although being in UK means lots of the books are hard to get. A book that I think is beautiful and I would struggle reading outl loud is Badger’s parting gift. It’s a book about death but is very sensitively handled.
Thank you Nikki – I get requests for books about death all the time and while I have some favorites that are simple to find in N. America having a title to check out that is accessible in the UK is so helpful for me. Thanks!
Frederick by Leo Lionni is my favorite book from my childhood.
“While the other field mice work to gather grain and nuts for winter, Frederick sits on a sunny rock by himself. “I gather sun rays for the cold dark winter days,” he tells them. Another day he gathers “colors,” and then “words.” And when the food runs out, it is Frederick, the dreamer and poet, whose endless store of supplies warms the hearts of his fellow mice, and feeds their spirits during the darkest winter days.”
I don’t think I have read a Lionni book that I couldn’t have included in this list. Fredrick inspired this puppet craft very early on in this blog – I think you’ll like my review of the book http://www.notimeforflashcards.com/2008/06/as-quiet-as-a.html
Don’t forget “the star bellies sneetches” by Dr. Suess
It tells that some people put too much importance on appearance, and how everyone can play together no matter if they look the same or not.
Oliver Button is a Sissy is one of my faves!
Oh the Places You’ll Go by Dr, Seuss should have been #1
The Giving Tree should of been #2
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I love this list of books and have a few that could be added. I use these books every year in my classroom regardless of what grade I am teaching.
The Golden Rule–it is presented from a boy’s point of view. He and his Grandfather are walking the city when they see “Do Unto Others as You Would Have Them Do Unto You”…the boy starts wondering about this message, what it means and what the world would be like it everyone followed it. The author has included multicultural interpretations of the message.
The Name Jar–a young girl and her family move to the United States from Korea. She is embarrassed about her Korean name because people struggle to pronounce it. Her first day at her new school, she decides not to tell her real name and the class helps her fill a “name jar” with suggestions that she “tries on” at home. I’ll let you read it to find out which name she picks.
Have You Filled a Bucket Today?–a great way to talk to kids about the abstract concept of feelings. Each person has an invisible bucket, which holds their good feelings about themselves. You can add to someones bucket by being kind, etc. Or, you dip into someones bucket when you do/say unkind things. The colorful, whimsical illustrations bring this book and idea to life.
Thank you for sharing more than just the titles – so useful to the other readers!
My son and I were recently introduced to “How Full is Your Bucket for Kids”. It is a good way to introduce the concept of feelings and actions.
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Mr. Peabody’s Apples by Madonna is wonderful.
Allie, this is an AWESOME list! I have a post on the same subject scheduled for tomorrow and I’m going now to add a link to your list. Great suggestions!
the giving tree by Shel Silverstein of course! c an you say peace by Karen Katz
How about Stellaluna? Such cute illustrations! We love this one. You can learn about fruit bats and accepting differences and unconditional love.
Little known but beautiful is The Boy who Grew Flowers available from Barefoot Books!
It’s on the list! Love that book, glad you do too!
Wonderful list…but I feel there’s ONE or two missing books. What about One and Zero by Kathryn Otoshi? They are by far the best books I’ve come across to teach about respect for each others and respect for yourself. Both kids and adults love them — they are beautiful and powerful — which is why I encourage all elementary schools, including kindergarten and Pre-K, to use them.
The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein. I didn’t notice it on the list.
Glad to see some of my faves were suggested: Stand Tall Molly Lou Melon, Enemy Pie, and the Empty Pot. Would also suggest:
Those Shoes by Maribeth Boelts
The Dot by Peter H. Reynolds
Milo and the Magical Stones by Marcus Pfister
The Teddy Bear by David McPhail
Great post idea!
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The Story of Ferdinand AKA Ferdinand the Bull. My seven year old knew the book by heart at 2 1/2 yrs. old. It is still one of his favorite books and mine too!
I love so many of the books on this list! I also love The Name Jar, which was mentioned above, and my preschool students this year loved One by Kathryn Otoshi (about bullying for young children) and Bein’ With You This Way by W. Nicola Lisa (about appreciating diversity and other physical differences).
We are huge One (by Kathryn Otoshi) fans in our house! I love the fact that the bully is included and loved in the end of the story, that there is room for everyone.
Would also nominate other favorites that have been mentioned:
Have you filled a Bucket (works with older kids as well!): kindness and encouragement
A Bad Case of Stripes: confidence in being yourself
The Quilt Maker’s Gift: generosity
Mr. Peabody’s Apples: the power of the spoken word
So many amazing books out there.
Thanks for putting together this list.
We’ll be going to the library tomorrow!!
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Thank you for this, although you have by now seriously added to my already long list of library books that we check out weekly
I’m always on the lookout for awesome books for my toddler, and I see some on your list that are new to us.
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The Giving Tree, by Shel Silverstein should be on here too.
Thanks!! I’ll have to keep this sheet as a reference! I don’t mean to sound rude, but I was surprised Pinkalicious was on the list. That one is in our collection as a “fun” one – and an old favorite. If my kid ever reads someone elses’ copy, she’ll realize that our copy has 2 pages discretely glued together (where she nags her mother again and AGAIN). My daughter was very impressionable to stories at that age we got the book and would go out of her way to mimic the behaviors in books and movies, which is why I glued it
I prefer the Rainbow Fish over Tico. I had gotten Tico from a thrift store and my daughter fell in love with it. I thought that birds’ “friends” were very selfish (and Tico was too concerned with their approval). “The Giving Tree” is another good book on giving of yourself until you are used up. It’s a touchy subject, though!
I am so surprised you are the first to mention disliking Pinkalicious. I love that book but in my experience with it the kids I have read it to have always corrected her behavior . Kids have a strong sense of right and wrong and characters that are making bad choices are usually noted for being bad not being a role model. I see the book as a great message about self control, even if she comes off as a heck of a brat at times.
But as a parent I understand your desire to limit and shape your child as needed. My son is very impressionable too with movies so we limit them greatly.
Thank you for taking time to compile this list. There are many wonderful books!
However, I was also surprised that Pinkalicious made the list. I personally find that the character demonstrates appalling behavior that I wouldn’t want my children to emulate. I know the book is popular, but I don’t agree that the book is “character building”. I also wonder what character trait “No! David” is supposed to teach.
On a separate note, what about William’s Doll by Charlotte Zolotow?
I really like Pinkalicious mostly because I think kids relate to the bad behavior whether they have acted like that or not they know it’s not ok , also I think it’s a great lesson in caring for our bodies and being responsible. I actually expected more of a backlash on it than I have had so far.
No David is a lesson in unconditional love, it’s all about boundaries and rules and that behavior can be bad but YOU are not. I used to read it to my classes before we sat down and wrote a class contract ( class rules) and the kids would see that rules aren’t arbitrary they are there for a reason and if you slip up it’s not a huge deal, it doesn’t mean you are bad but there are consequences.
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I love Kevin Henkes and see you’ve included a lot of his books, however how could you not include Lily and Her Purple, Plastic Purse?! Also, Love You Forever used to creep me out, but now that my kids are older, I finally get it! However, Guess How Much I Love You is a much better choice to read to the kids.
definitely The Lorax, The Velveteen Rabbit, and The Snowman.
oh and absolutely My Princess Boy.
We like Fancy Nancy. The Fabulous Fashion Boutique, Splendiferous Christmas, and Bonjour Butterfly are good ones.
Maybe I missed it somewhere, but I love Leo the Late Bloomer (can’t recall the author at the moment). Everyone “blooms” in their own time.
Robert Krauss – I agree that Leo the Late Bloomer is a fantastic book.
I also would have rather seen Chrysanthemum on there than Julius, Baby of the World.
What about “Stand Tall, Molly Lou Melon” One of my favorites
We love I Like Myself by Karen Beaumont.
I LOVE The Paper Bag Princess! So many good books on this list, plus a lot more for us to look for now! A good one that we like is The Crayon Box that Talked.
Stand Tall Molly Lou Melon! It’s the absolute best character building book my 4 year old and I have read thus far.
I know this is not a picture book, and the series is rather old but I loved Mrs Piggle Wiggle books as a child. I think some of these oldies but goodies are being passed over for some of the newer stuff that is coming out.
This is a great list, I actually was excited that I have not read every single one although I have read many. It is so hard to limit children’s literature to only 100 books for a list, but thank goodness we don’t have to choose only 100 to read in our lives!
The Empty Pot
This is a great book that teaches the value of integrity. I give it to my children’s teachers for gifts. A true classic.
The little engine that could, Oh the places you’ll go by Dr Seuss
“The Secret of Saying Thanks” by Douglas Wood
This is great, I’m always looking for good books to add to my son’s already huge book collection. We only have two on this list and he loves them both, Where the Wild Things Are, and The Way Back Home!
Hazel’s Amazing Mother by Rosemary Wells… there’s quite a few of her books that would make great additions to this list!
A great list but, you are missing three from one of my daughters favorite authors, Dana Lehman.
You must not have read them yet because one if not all would have made the list! Her first, “Adventures at Walnut Gove” is a lesson about teasing. Teaching children to treat others as they would like to be treated. Being accepting of our differences. Great for “Anti-Bullying lessons!” Teach them compassion at an early age.
Then there is “I Double Dare You!” Which teaches children to take responsibility for their actions and that following their friends can sometimes lead to trouble.
Her most recent book is “I Can Do It”. Which teaches how important it is to believe in yourself.
All wonderful lessons wrapped up in entertaining adventures. Thank you for your list.
Tanya, how old is your daughter? My daughter got glasses at 14 months, and I have had the same issue with so many of the books about glasses out there. So many seem to present glasses as a bad thing, and have the kids being teased for their glasses. I’d definitely recommend Fancy Nancy Spectacular Spectacles or Princesses Wear Glasses.
Fancy Nancy Spectacular Spectacles was my daughter’s favorite book for a while. The main character doesn’t get glasses, but her best friend Bree does. Bree talks to the class about why she needs glasses, and after reading the book, my daughter started talking a lot more about why she wore glasses. The main character, Fancy Nancy really wants to have sparkly purple glasses like her friend. There is no teasing, just celebrating how lovely glasses can be.
There’s another book, Princesses Wear Glasses that is written by a mom whose daughter needed glasses. It’s available from Amazon and comes with a cape and a crown and glasses case. The princess already wears glasses and there’s no mention of it being a big deal for her. She saves a dragon who can’t see well by giving him her spare pair of glasses.
The first Princess Peepers book does have her teased about her glasses. But the second book, Princess Peepers Picks a Pet has no teasing and it’s pretty sweet.
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A very important book is The Hundred Dresses by Eleanor Estes.
I couldn’t agree more with The Hundred Dresses. It’s kind of a cross between a picture book and an early chapter book. Along that vein, Gooseberry Park by Cynthia Rylant is another excellent read. There are lots of pictures, but it’s more of an early chapter book. More picture books I love: “A Packet of Seeds” by Deborah Hopkinson, “The Rag Coat” by Lauren Mills, “The Ox-Cart Man” by Donald Hall, “Suki’s Kimono” by Chiere Uegaki, and “The Red Clogs” by Masako Matsuno, and as others have said, “Miss Rumphius.”
A favorite of mine is Little Beaver and the Echo by Amy MacDonald. I love the “you get what you give message” in that book!
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The Empty Pot, by Demi – Perseverance and Honesty;
The Quiltmaker’s Gift, by Jeff Brumbeau – Generosity;
Grandpa For Sale, by Dotti Enderle – People are priceless; and
I Love You the Purplest, by Barbara M. Joosse – Mom loves her children equally, but in different ways
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Miss Rumphius is another great book that should be added!
I LOVE that you included Princess Smartypants, such a great book. Anything by Todd Parr is fantastic. I lost track through the tons of comments, the only other books I could think of were the Have you Filled a Bucket Today? books and On the Night You Were Born. A new all time favorite is Because of You by Barbara Hennessey. It is AMAZING, a great book for kids and families.
The Purple Coat by Amy Hest would have been a great addition!
Love this list, now I have to go to work and see what titles I can add! (I’m a preschool teacher). but one book I recently got from a Scholastic book order (I buy books every month) is “A Tree Named Steve”. Can’t recall the author but it is such a sweet story about a family who adopts a tree in their yard and what happens over the years. It made me cry. And I’m glad someone mentioned “The Story of Ferdinand” by Munro Leaf. My absolute favorite book from when I was a child and one of my favorite books to read to the kids. Oh, two newer ones, “Hugless Douglas” and “Don’t Worry Douglas”. Sweet, cute and funny to boot!
I love Patricia Polacco’s books. So many of them discuss friendships between people of different ages, race, ethnicity, and religion. My favorite is Just Plain Fancy, in which two little girls learn that being different is something to be celebrated and is actually a gift. I also love Pink and Say, a true story, although it is not for very young children. It is a story of two young soldiers in the civil war and may be too upsetting and difficult to understand for many children. (I was eleven when I first read it)
We also love Princess Bubble and Cinder Edna
I’ll love you forever…great book about parenting, loving your child, growing up and growing old.
I am very excited to head to the library this week with my little guy in search of books on this list. I am going to make it a weekly trip and work our way through the whole list hopefully. Hoping to get my 12 year old to read with us. He can use the lessons that many of these books have as he prepares for middle school next year.
The Lorax, The Giving Tree, On the Night You Were Born
What a great list. Two of our favorites that weren’t mentioned are: Sylvester and the Magic Pebble by William Steig, in which Sylvester learns that the best thing he could wish for is to be himself and be with his family. And The Princess Knight, where the princess Violetta grows up being true to herself.
The Three Questions by Jon J. Muth is fantastic. The illustrations are absolutely gorgeous too! Also by him – Zen Shorts, or by Mo Willems, Leonardo the Terrible Monster. If you are looking for beautiful illustrations and a bit of a deeper story there is Old Turtle and the Broken Truth. We read all of these with my son when he was very little and he still likes to read them now that he’s older.
Two books I would add to the list are Mouse, Mole and the Falling Star by A. H. Benjamin and John Bendell-Brunello as well as I Love You Because You’re You by Liza Barker. My son loves these books and I do too!
I love this list and it’s a great idea to make it for mothers! But where on earth is The Giving Tree??? Sweetest and best children’s book I’ve read and it teaches a great message.
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My fav in this category is “You can do it, Sam” by Anita Hest. It’s about doing something nice for others, and stepping out of your comfort zone just a bit.
I noticed that the Bible was left off the list. This book really should be at the top of a list of books that build character. There are so many stories that teach right and wrong, good and bad, true and false. Knowledge of these things are what build the character to be a strong and wise child and adult.
I love a lot of these books- great stories, but emphasis should be first on building the foundation.
Thanks for putting this list together.
I believe that A Color of His Own and Stone Soup are great character building books.
Ann, Thank you so much for your suggestions. Our daughter just turned 4 and she got her glasses in October. She has never been teased for her glasses and I don’t expect she will be as I don’t think that happens often but she is noticing now that Disney princesses don’t wear glasses; this was pointed out to her by a friend recently. I don’t think it was malicious in any way as kids have a way with pointing out the obvious as they see it but it really stuck with her and now she has been stating that she thinks she looks ugly with her glasses and she can only be a princess if she doesn’t wear them. It seriously breaks my heart every time I have to tell her to put them back on. I will be purchasing your suggestions today and I can’t thank you enough.
My children (especially my boys) love Ferdinand the Bull. It has such a good message of staying true to who you are.
Love the list you put together…the books that came to my mind that were not on the list…The Mitten Tree, A Bad Case of Stripes, Little Quack, Little Quack and His New Friend, The Empty Pot, Have You Filled a Bucket Today, Oh the Places You Will Go, Ferdinad the Bull, Winnie the Pooh
The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein should definitely have made the list.
Thank you Mr. Falker by Patricia Polacco. It’s about learning disabilities. And Chicken Soup for the Kid’s Soul. It has great short character-building stories.
Verdi by Janell Cannon, and anything by Patricia Polacco.
Also – I completely agree with you about Rainbow Fish – such a creepy book and there are so many better books out there that teach the value of sharing (items or talents) with others.
Thanks for sharing this list!!
We love is Stand Tall Molly Lou Melon by Patty Lovell – I have two unique girls who relate.
And, Have You Filled A Bucket (and version for toddler/preschooler) is something my 3 & 4 year old really liked for the concept!!!
Thanks for the list.
I was so thrilled that Eduardo, the Horriblest Boy in the World was on your list! It’s a great book! But please check out The Great Kapok Tree…It absolutely should be on there!
I’m not sure if anyone else has mentioned these two books but they were given to my son by his aunt who is a kindergarten teacher and knows that they have good lessons in them.
-Leo the Late Bloomer- by Robert Kraus and
-Have You Filled a Bucket Today?- by Carol McCloud
Even though the lessons may be a little hard for my two year old to understand, he still enjoys the story and the wonderfully colorful pictures and telling us how he thinks the people are feeling and why. Thank you for the wonderful list!
I love Kevin Henkes, his books are amazing and so fun to read aloud, although I like Lilly a lot better with her Purple Plastic Purse than in Julius Another favorite of ours is Dogger by Shirley Hughes, such a sweet story about siblings treating each other with kindness (without the usual fighting/name-calling typically found in stories about sibling relationships).
I don’t see anything by Max Lucado and my son and I enjoyed his stories so much. I believe he truly learned life lessons from his stories. Another favorite was Hooway for Wodney Wat by Helen Lester, where my son learned to be kind to others no matter how different. He is 13 now and befriends everyone who seems to be a little different from everyone else…makes me proud!
I didn’t read every comment, and I apologize if someone already said this. Byrd Baylor’s The Table Where Rich People Sit is one of my all-time favorites to share with my upper-middle class students. It’s a great eye opener; every kid hears the lesson, but it’s not preachy.
Thank you for compiling this – I love this list – it includes many favourites but also many new-to-me books. I was wondering if you would consider putting the subject along with the title in the case of books covering specific issues – it would be helpful to know at a glance which books were on bullying or generosity or unconditional love etc rather than clicking through to 75 reviews and full descriptions.
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Thank you for this list. It is fantastic.
Great List! Can’t wait to get stuck into some of these.
For mine, Oh the places you’ll go is number one. I’m surprised there were only a few other mentions in the comments. I just love the message of you will have bad days but thats ok, pick yourself up, you’re rad! But also some of the littler messages sprinkled throughout. An absolute fave at our place!
Thanks again for the list:)
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Tacky the Penquin – love that entire series.
Glad to see you have Princess Smartypants – I think that is a great beek fr little girls.
Two of our faves are
On Mother’s Lap, by Ann Herbert Scott-this is a great one about siblings… “there’s always room on mother’s lap”
Mama Do You Love Me?, by Barbara M.Joosse- about unconditional love… “I would be scared, but still, I would love you”
LOVE LOVE LOVE “Little Blue Truck” by Alice Schertle. It is a board book….” Thanks, little brother/said the Dump to Blue/ you helped me/ and they helped you. /Now i see/ a lot depends/on a helping hand/from a few good friends.” Great message on the importance of friends and helping others in need. Also the rythm/meter is fantastic for reading aloud. Features lots of farm animals for awesome sound effects as well. My 5 year old is still mesmerized by this book, and I take it in whenever I sub at my children’s preschool. Also now standard baby shower gift.
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The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein and Oh the Places You’ll Go by Dr. Seuss should have made the list. And the No David! books are not great, and I don’t see how they would build character IMHO.
No! David has opened the floor for discussing responsibility , unconditional love and why we follow rules with every group of preschoolers I’ve ever read it to. Love it’s potential.
Tacky The Penguin & Todd Parr’s The Family Book are favorites here!
What do you think about “Oliver Button Is a Sissy”?
Your list may just be picture books, but The Hundred Dresses….still have my copy from childhood and read it to my second graders every year that I taught! Love that Book! Love Love you Forever, too! Still sing that to my 19 and 22 year olds!
Each Little Bird that Sings by Deborah Wiles!!! I had to read it for a children’s lit class in college. LOVED it!
My two favorites are Stand Tall, Molly Lou Melon and Oh The Places You’ll Go
Great list! I know we read many of these to my son when he was little!
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Great list! I know we read many of these to my son when he was little boy!
no dr. seuss??!
the ‘pinkalicious’ books are seriously awful. that little girl is a naughty brat and the end does NOT justify the means.
i do love what you have to say about the importance of reading to your kids, and am so glad you put that out there. i completely agree. you just can’t read to your kids enough!
a couple of my favorites: a house for hermit crab by eric carle, and yertle the turtle by dr. seuss
Sylvester and the Magic Pebble! Great book about learning to be grateful for what you have!
Definitely “The Gruffalo”!!
I am doing a follow up post based on suggestions and reading and re-reading a bunch . Love The Gruffalo and it will have a prominent place on the follow up !
I love that you have The Paperbag Princess on your list! A book that I love that teaches that what’s inside is what counts is McSpots Hidden Spots by Laura Seely.
I love The Story of Ruby Bridges about courage and forgiveness.
Not only Tacky, but any of the Helen Lester Books are wonderful for kids tripping along through youth – with topics including speech delay, self-confidence, bullying, lying, and more, presented in humorous and simple language.
I would also add “Old Turtle and the Broken Truth” a fable about tolerance and treating others with love.
I haven’t read ALL the comments, but have you read Hush Little Baby by Sylvia Long?
[ http://www.amazon.com/Hush-Little-Baby-Sylvia-Long/dp/0811814165 ] It’s lovely…. rather than buying things to entice baby to be quiet, it speaks to what we do with our little ones. I buy it for everyone close to me that becomes a new parent.
love, love, love, love the book ” i want my hat back” by jon klassen
Growing up I definitely thought “The Story of Zachary Zween” was very character building.
Oh..what about The Pout Pout Fish??/ Love it!!!
My son came home with a book today from the media center that I think goes well with this discussion. It’s The Berenstain Bears and the Double Dare. Some of their books can be iffy; some I completely love and some I don’t. This one however was a good one, in which brother bear gets dared to steal a watermelon from Farmer Ben’s garden or else be labeled a chicken. It’s about gangs and bullys and the age old question, “if your friends jumped off a bridge, would you?” We were able to talk about what brother bear could have/should have done and by the end we both decided we would rather be chickens than sheep
Mr Peabody’s Apples by Madonna should be considered for your list–Such a great analogy in it about how spreading a rumor is like shaking the feathers out of a pillow into the wind. You can never really undo the damage you may cause by spreading a rumor–it teaches how very powerful words are.
I can’t believe “The Little Engine That Could” did not make the list.
I totally disagree with “Pinkalicious” as a character building book. She is a brat and those books are not allowed in my house. The books teach bad behavior.
I don’t think Pinkalicious teaches bad behavior at all. A braty main character does not equate with a how to lesson on misbehavior.
Children relate to the mis-steps and braty reactions but in my experience reading that book children correct her and recognize it all as the wrong choice. They don’t see her as a role model. I think when we assume kids will see bad behavior and immediately choose to act like that we are underestimating our children. Use books like this as a launch pad for discussing choices, consequences and how we should behave. I think it’s a great lesson for that, for healthy choices that may not be the most fun to make but that are important. When we dismiss these books we are missing possible opportunities to connect and teach.
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BRONTORINA by James Howe
One of the best dancing/ballerina books. It is a book about following your dreams even when people tell you it is impossible and about being different (like a boy in an all girls dance class). It is about a dinosaur who wants to be a ballerina.
Adding it to my must read list.
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Not sure if you can get them anymore but i was raised with the Serendipity books and any one of them is great for building character
Mr. Peabody’s Apples has a great character building moral. It is a book written by Madonna.
I reviewed it here – it’s got a nice message. http://www.notimeforflashcards.com/2008/07/but-can-they-write.html
Great list!
I would definitely add The Gruffalo which was a favourite of all 4 of my kids when they were little. And Ferdinand the Bull which some other commenters havealso mentioned.
Another one I would add to the list is The Elephant and the Bad Baby, which is a delightful little English book about an Elephant and a Bad baby who go for a gallop around witht he bad baby asking for things but never saying please. In the end the Elephant teaches him the error of his ways and he learns to say please all the time. One of my son’s adored this book when he was around 2; it has delightful illustrations and a rhythmic language.
I’d also include Possum Magic by Mem Fox, which is an Australian book. In this book the main character feels left out when his mother has more children and he turns invisible. He learns that of course he is loved even though his mother is busy with thenew babies. This was a really goodbook for my eldest (of 4), as he related very much to the main character, and gave us an opportunity to discuss those feelings.
All my babies are teenagers now, and I really miss reading them books like this…can’t wait for grandchildren to get out our substantial book collection and discover new ones!
Thank you Georgia for the suggestions, I am adding them to my list of books to review in a follow up post!
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Herbie loves to Dance – all about believing in yourself and persevering.
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I love the book “Miss Tizzy”—every child should have someone like her in their lives who understands children and encourages them to be themselves, and who teaches them how to give and love.
I’ll Love You Forever! This was one of my kids’ favorite books and teaches that parents take care of children and children take care of parents when they are old. I could never get through the book with out a lump in my throat and tears in my eyes.
What a great list. I was so happy to see Giraffes’ Can’t Dance included on this list! It encourages us to find our own music and believe in ourselves. As a mother of a child with autism, that message is especially appreciated in our house! I have to agree with many of the other readers, Guess How Much I Love You and Oh the Places You’ll Go are tops on our list here as well – please add them to Part 2
Thanks for the fabulous list – I’m definitely using it! We just read the book Have You Filled Your Bucket Today? A Guide to daily happiness for kids —- by Carol McCloud – Really great lessons about how we treat each other
Thanks!!
I am a little staggered that there is not a single Dr. Suess book on your list. I would say that Horton Hears a Who, The Lorax, and The Sneeches, to name a few, all give wonderful lessons about character.
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Heather
I am not a big Seuss fan but I will be adding a few to the follow up post for sure.
I’ll admit I haven’t read all 219 replies, but I hope someone mentioned The Great Kapok Tree (taking care of our environment), The Tub People (the importance of family – and of taking care of your toys), and Sleepy Bears (mother addresses each of her many cubs individualities).
I am wondering what books would be the “best” to start with for a 3yr old boy. My son really only likes “GO DOG GO.” and “Pete The Cat” he has both of those memorized. I would love to start more books. But honestly, when I go to the library I can feel overwhelmed. Thanks!
Here is our list of different book themes and reviews – I would start with something is is interested in. We have so many themes I hope there is something for him . http://www.notimeforflashcards.com/book-reviews
Thanks! I have five books on hold at the library to start with. And five more to start when we are done with those. It’s nice to have your reviews on so many books.
I saw other posters mention it, but one of our favorites is the giving tree. That tree has a lot to teach about selflessness, loyalty, and unconditional love, and that boy could certainly open up discussion on ungratefulness and taking things for granted.
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I like how you phrased that. The Giving Tree has sparked a lot of discussion in comments and I will be adding it to my list of reader suggested in the follow up. I like your take though, much like how I love books with naughty behavior, I think they teach as cautionary tales.
“Who Are You” by Joan and Roger Bradfield published by Whitman 1966 & Illustrated by Winnie Fitch is one of the best books I’ve ever found for teaching individualism and Self-Awareness. I read it to my sister as a child, then to my children. I had been looking for it for years to read to my nephews and grandchildren and my son finally found me a copy on the web. It is a book of questions: Who are you? What’s your Name? Would you like to play a game? Let’s pretend we haven’t met, I’ll ask you questions now get set.
Then ends with: When you comb your hair each day, do you grin that special way? Does your face smile back at you? Does it copy what you do? That looking glass upon the wall, shows how you look, but that’s not all. It says that you and only you can do the special things you do; can think your thoughts, can have your fun, for you are you, there’s only one!
I would love to see this book back in publication. It’s one of the best!
Two of my favorites growing up we’re Herbie’s Troubles and, of course, Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day. I had a hard time dealing with problems that arose, either with other children at school or just plain bad luck. These books helped.
I have a serious emotional connection to Alexander. I loved that book and still do, it’s one of my favorites to read to children. Herbie’s Troubles sounds oddly familiar , I need to search for it asap. Thanks!
“Goodnight Moon”, “On The Night You Were Born”, “When We Were Very Young”
“The Great Kapok Tree” is excellent, as is “Possum Magic.” One I haven’t seen on this list yet is “Follow the Drinking Gourd.” It’s about the underground railroad. My kids and I really enjoyed this story.
Have you read Helga’s Dowry by Tomie de Paola?
No – I am adding it to my holds at the library right now! Thanks.
I would add this one: http://www.amazon.com/Princess-story-about-young-loves/dp/0615395945 about a little boy who loves all things that are traditionally considered “girly.”
Thank you – I am noting all the suggestions for a follow up . This sounds right up my alley!
Thanks so much for sharing
Another great book my kids and I love is The Little White Owl by Tracey Corderoy, it teaches kids that’s it’s not always what’s on the outside that matters but what’s on the inside as well.
Sounds like a great book – I will check it out!
The Story of Frog Belly Rat Bone by Timothy Basil Ering
http://www.amazon.com/Story-Frog-Belly-Rat-Bone/dp/0763626112
This book became one of my favorites while reading it in the bookstore and and after reading it once to my godson, became a favorite of his as well. Wonderful message, many talking points and visually engaging, no matter how many times you’ve read it.
A uniquely illustrated story about patience, cooperation, forgiveness, perseverance, finding beauty in the not-so-beautiful places, and nurturing life where we find it.
“Frog Belly Rat Bone! One! Two! Three! The specks in the earth are protected by me! You must be patient and then you will see!”
Thank you so much . I will be adding this to the list of reader suggested books for the follow up.
THE RAINBOW FISH! I’m disappointed it’s not on here :/
I know there are a ton of comments but if you scroll through you’ll see many people and I think it’s a terrible story about giving up your uniqueness to gain friends. I know others think it’s a story about sharing but I just don’t like it, which is why it’s not here intentionally. I will mention it in the follow up though. What is your favorite thing about it?
I love Edwina, the Dinosaur Who Didn’t Know She Was Extinct by Mo Willems. It is a great story about being yourself even when others try to tear you down.
Now that is a book I simply forgot to add – yes yes yes!!
Tikki Tikki Tembo, King Bidgood, Abiyoyo, Go Away Big Green Monster, Princess Smarty Pants, Lon Po Po, Rain Talk, Quick As a Cricket, It’s not easy being 5, Etc…
My kids LOVE Go Away Big Green Monster and King Bidgood’s in the bathtub! My mother-in-law found them at goodwill years ago and I’ve read them a million times to each of my kids.
I loved the book “Chrysanthemum” by Kevin Henkes when my kids were little. Sends a good message & cute book.
Another good one is “the do-something day” by Joe Lasker. I’ve had it since I was a kid and now I’ve been finding my daughter reading it on her own a lot. It’s about a little boy whose family is busy so he feels that he is not needed. He ends up helping everyone around town and by the end he is also able to help his family.
Good list but you left off “Ruby the Copycat” by Peggy Rathmann (individuality and being yourself)
and “Something From Nothing” by Phoebe Gilman (resourcefulness), The Sneeches (individuality and being happy with who you are).
“The Giving Tree” by Shel Silverstein is a toss up — good behavior on part of the tree, selfish behavior on the part of the boy/man.
“I Love You Forever” by Robert Munsch creeps me out — a lovely sentiment shrouded by creepiness — yuck.
Ruby the Copycat – is being put on hold today, can’t wait to check it out, thanks for the rec!
Something From Nothing is a fave of mine and number 4
I found my copy in the basement of a used bookstore in St. Louis under a chair. I love it and every child I ever read it to did too.
Oops, totally missed seeing “Something from Nothing” — a long time favorite of all my kids, from the 21 year old down to the 5 year old. Glad it made the list!
You’ll love “Ruby the Copycat!”
It’s a long list I have to double check… in my 50 Outside Activities I had “Run Through A Sprinkler” twice. I didn’t notice until days later. A commenter left a note and I brainstormed another and fixed it from my phone at swim lessons.
I would also recommend; The Giving Tree, Jeremiah Learns to Read, Squeakers by Stephen Cosgrove, and Socks for Supper by Jack Kent
One of my favorites is The Crayon Box That Talked. Love it. Also use it for my staff.
Just found your list through Pinterest – what a wonderful collection! Now I need to go to the library – there are a whole bunch on here that I haven’t read! One of my favorites that I didn’t see mentioned as I quickly browsed the comments is “Duck and Goose” by Tad Hills. A wonderful book about friendship. Probably my fave picture book right now.
yes I love that book too – I reviewed it ages ago. I need to grab it again and read it to my littlest. Thanks!
I love “On a Tall Tall Cliff” by Andrew Murray, Weslandia by Paul Fleischman, Loop the Loop by Barbara Dugan, Wilfrid Gordon McDonals Partridge by Mem Fox, Brother Juniper by Diane Gibfried, and George the Dragon and the Princess by Chris Wormell. Thanks for this list.
Thank you Wendy – I will add those to list of reader suggested books to add to a follow up!
Anything by Patricia Polacco! Her books include a message and usually a first hand account behind one of the characters. A fabulous one to start with is “Thank You Mr. Falker”. It is a great message about bullying and overcoming a learning disability. “Thundercake” is a great story about a little girl overcoming her fear of thunder. Many of them are focused around becoming educated. I highly recommend them!
The Bible has wonderful character building stories….there are a lot of simplified versions out there. Another one which we love is King Hugo’s Huge Ego…
The House That Had Enough – we read it often when chores get forgotten
Elmer – ALL time favorite about being yourself!!
Excited about reading from your list.
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I just can’t take any list serisouly if it doesn’t have The Giving Tree on It. And some of these comments crack me up! “This book is too sad” “This book punishes the character”. How are we to build our children’s character without letting them experience life? I feel like some of you on here are too sheltering. They are not too young to deal with these issues…… 5 year olds deal with bullies, three year olds encounter death, Four year olds deal with identity problems. What better way to face these issues head on than with a book?
I will be addressing The Giving Tree in a follow up post- I’d never read it to my kids and I read these books to my kids first. After reading it to my son I remembered why I’d never grabbed it. But I will leave the rest of that to my follow up. I agree that kids need to experience it and that is probably why I love books with naughty kids… it’s realistic.
This is a great list; I read many of those books in my classroom and with my own children. Kevin Henkes is one of our favorites. I would add Mean Jean the Recess Queen; we use it to show a child how NOT to be a bully and how to respond to a bully. We also love to read Peach and Blue about friendship. I teach second grade and would also recommend Thank You Mr. Falker by Patricia Polacco-every year as I read it, I cry…the kids love and relate to the book; they feel a connection after finding out that Mrs.l Polacco struggled with reading and writing.
Kelly these are great suggestions! I could have put every single Henkes book on here, I just connect so well to him and his characters. I think every one has a valuable message.
Thanks for the list. How about the book, “The Snail and the Whale? by Julia Donaldson. It delivers such a great message! One of my favorites. “The Pout Pout Fish” by Deborah Dieson is also good for building character.
Both sound familiar but I will need to re-read them – what do you love about them?
Two more that are must reads….Owl Moon by Jane Yolen…teaches bravery and patience….
http://www.amazon.com/Owl-Moon-Jane-Yolen/dp/0399214577/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1333478316&sr=8-1
And Shine Moon Shine by David Conway….
http://www.amazon.com/Shine-Moon-David-Conway/dp/B003A02QNG/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1333478380&sr=1-1
Owl moon is fantastic thanks for the reminder. I will add the other to my must read list and it might turn up in the follow up post, thanks.
Oh, Allie! I just read the sweetest book called Pete and Pickles. Have you read it? The message is one of unconditional love and had me in tears! Wonderful!
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No but I will add it to my must read list. I read one called ” The Most Loved Girl in All The World ” at the library and I was weeping. So beautiful. Thanks for the rec Marnie!
What a wonderful list!
hree that we also love are Stone Soup, Show Way by Jacqueline Woodson, and Joseph Had a Little Overcoat by Simms Taback
Saw above that some folks found “I’ll Love You Forever” to be creepy, but it is a book my son and I absolutely love. We read it so often that I ended up making the main passage into a song that I would sing to him. He is nine now, and he has even surprised my by writing that message to me as a note that he hid in my work bag. When he says it, he changes the words to, “I’ll love you forever, I’ll like you for always, as long as I’m living, your baby I’ll be…”
I love that no matter what happens, how many changes or life passages they each pass through, the strong bond and love between the mother and the son endures. That book will always hold a special place for me!
Stellaluna. And for “older picture book readers” Pink and Say (Patricia Polacco)
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Oliver Button is a Sissy is one of my favorites about doing what makes you happy without worrying about what others think. Sylvester and the Magic Pebble is an entertaining story about being happy with what you have.
if you really want to build character, it’s The Giving Tree by Shel Silverstein
Please consider adding The Red Racer by Audrey Wood, Enemy Pie (can’t remember the author), Raising Dragons by Jerdine Nolen, The Empty Pot by Demi, and A Bargain for Frances by Lillian Hoban.
They will be added to my list in a follow up post. Thank you !
Hey you forgot “Johnny and the Bad Bad Bubblegum!”
I will check it out – thanks!
I was surprised that none of Patricia Polacco’s books made it onto the list. “thank you Mr.Falker” and “the Junkyard Wonders” come to mind now, but she has written many powerful books that incorporate her own life story.
I will add her to the list for my ever growing follow up post. Sometimes books slip under my radar . I hope you found a few new ones for you too!
I love “You’re All My Favorites” by Sam McBratney. It’s sweet, simple and too the point. And reaffirms to kids that moms and dads have plenty of love to go around.
How about The Gardener? Think it sends an important message about facing adversity with a positive attitude.
BY Sarah Stewart? It’s #8 I couldn’t agree more, love that book.
Love your list. Started going through and adding the ones people suggested but there are SO many comments that I think I only made it part way through March’s comments.
Anyhow, I put your list along with a few others from the comments into alphabetical order by author’s last name, for those of us who want to print off a list to take to the library… I will paste it here but maybe you can come up with a better way for people to view it so it doesn’t take up so much room. Thanks for all you share!
We love “The Little Bit Scary People” by Emily Jenkins – shows that sometimes when we think someone is scary or mean, it’s b/c we don’t understand them. Love how it shows the humanity of everyone – we all have something good in us.
Adler A Picture Book Of Helen Keller by David A. Adler
Alemagna Bugs in a Blanket by Beatrice Alemagna
Auch The Princess and The Pizza by Mary Jane and Herb Auch
Bloom The Bus For Us by Suzanne Bloom
Boelts Looking For Sleepy by Meribeth Boelts
Boyton Snuggle Puppy by Sandra Boyton
Bradfield Pickle Chiffon Pie by Jolly Roger Bradfield
Bradley Ballerino Nate by Kimberly Brubaker Bradley
Brisson I Remember Miss Perry by Pat Brisson
Bruel Bob and Otto by Robert O. Bruel
Bunting One Green Apple by Eve Bunting
Burningham Edwardo the Horriblest Boy in the Whole Wide World by John Burningham
Carle The Very Busy Spider by Eric Carle
Carlson My Best Friend Moved Away by Nancy Carlson
Cole Princess Smartypants by Brenda Cole
Coulman Sink or Swim by Valerie Coulman
Danneberg First Day Jitters by Julie Danneberg
Dismondy Spaghetti in a Hotdog Bun by Maria Dismondy
Dismondy The Juicebox Bully by Maria Dismondy
Edwards The Grumpy Morning by Pamela Duncan Edwards
Elmer Elmer by David McKee
Farris My Brother Martin by Christine King Farris
Fernandes Ordinary Amos And The Amazing Fish by Eugenie and Henry Fernandes
Fierstein The Sissy Duckling by Harvey Fierstein
Fox Whoever You Are by Mem Fox
Fox Wilfrid Gordon McDonald Partridge by Mem Fox
Gilman Something From Nothing by Phoebe Gilman
Giovanni Rosa By Nikki Giovanni
Grimm The Star Child by Brothers Grimm
Henkes Shelia Rae, The Brave by Kevin Henkes
Henkes Julius The Baby Of The World by Kevin Henkes
Henkes Owen by Kevin Henkes
Henkes Wemberly Worried by Kevin Henkes
Hutchins The List by Hazel Hutchins
Isadora Ben’s Trumpet by Rachel Isadora
Janni Every Cowgirl Needs A Horse by Rebecca Janni
Jeffers How To Catch A Star by Oliver Jeffers
Jeffers The Way Back Home by Oliver Jeffers
Jenkins The Little Bit Scary People by Emily Jenkins
Jordan Did I Tell You I Love You Today? by Deloris Jordan
Kann Pinkalicious by Victoria and Elizabeth Kann
Karlins Music Over Manhattan by Mark Karlins
Kilodavis My Princess Boy by Cheryl Kilodavis
Lester Tacky The Penguin by Helen Lester
Lionni It’s Mine by Leo Lionni
Lionni Fish is Fish by Leo Lionni
Lovell Stand Tall Molly Lou Melon by Patty Lovell
Lyon The Pirate Of Kindergarten by George Ella Lyon
McCourt I Love You Stinky Face by Lisa McCourt
Moore Freckleface Strawberry by Julianne Moore
Mora Pablo’s Tree by Pat Mora
Munsch The Paper Bag Princess by Robert Munsch
Munsch Murmel, Murmel, Murmel by Robert Munsch
Munsch Stephanie’s Ponytail by Robert Munsch
Noble The Orange Shoes by Trinka Hakes Noble
Parr The Family Book by Todd Parr
Penn A Kiss Goodbye by Audrey Penn
Penn The Kissing Hand by Audrey Penn
Poydar Zip, Zip… Homework by Nancy Poydar
Raven Let’s Them Play by Margo Theis Raven
Richardson And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson and Peter Parnell
Rockwell Valentine’s Day by Anne Rockwell
Root One Duck Stuck by Phyllis Root
Russo A Very Big Bunny by Marisabina Russo
Sauer Cowboy Camp by Tammi Sauer
Seuss The Lorax
Shannon A Bad Case of the Stripes by David Shannon
Shannon Duck On A Bike by David Shannon
Stewart The Gardener by Sarah Stewart
Sturges The Little Red Hen Makes A Pizza by by Philomen Sturges
Sykes I Don’t Want To Go To Bed by Julia Sykes
Taylor The Loudest Roar by Thomas Taylor
Tinkham Hair For Mama by Kelly A. Tinkham
Ulberg Dad, Jackie and Me by Myron Ulberg
Watt Scaredy Squirrel Makes A Friend by Melanie Watt
Wild Piglet and Papa by Margaret Wild
Williams A Chair For My Mother by Vera B Williams
Willis I Want To Be A Cowgirl by Jeanne Willis
Wilson Hilda Must Be Dancing by Karma Wilson
Wilson Bear Stays Up At Christmas by Karma Wilson
Wojtowicz The Boy Who Grew Flowers by Jennifer Wojtowicz
Wong Apple Pie Fourth Of July by Janet S. Wong
Zolotow A Father Like That by Charlotte Zolotow
Zolotow William’s Doll by Charlotte Zolotow
Unknown authors:
The Quiltmaker’s Gift
Crow Boy
The Big Orange Splot
A Sick Day for Amos McGee
I LOVE all the suggestions – we own a lot of these and the rest are on our never ending list. Any suggestions for books geared towards children of single moms with no fathers in their life?
Let me think about that Sarah. The Family Book by Todd Parr doesn’t specifically mention it but has images of single parents. A Chair For My Mother has no dad in it… let me dig through my archives tonight !
I’d like to also thank you for not including “The Giving Tree”. Not only is it unspeakably depressing, but the takeaway lesson is that it’s somehow heroic to destroy yourself for the sake of someone else’s whims. We’ve received several copies of it over the years and all of them have quietly been removed from the house. It’s toxic.
Glad to see “Bear Stays Up Late for Christmas” on the list: it always chokes me up. “Bear Feels Sick” is also great.
“The Art Lesson” by Tommie DePaola is an excellent book, and suggests the value of self-expression and individuality.
“In A Minute” is an old favorite: it’s a lovely little story about being patient, with a bit of a twist.
All the original Little Bear books (Minarik/Sendak) are fantastic for a variety of reasons. Each story delivers its own little message, and reading them is like being wrapped up in a warm blanket. I loved reading them with my mom around 40 years ago, and now my kids love them too.
“Little Rabbit’s Christmas” by Harry Horse is also great. The main character starts off sort of spoiled and demanding, but ends up realizing the value of being a good friend.
I will be addressing both my and my son’s reaction to The Giving Tree in our follow up. Thank you for your comments very thoughtful!
Also I will be adding a few of them to my library list to check out
Two books that I think could definately be added to this list is Something Beautiful and Strega Nona. I loved the list and have a few written down to add to check out at the library. Thanks for giving great suggestions
The Hundred Dresses is a wonderful, thought-provoking book, especially when you start to talk about bullying, and fitting in, and being thankful for what you have.
What about The Giving Tree? Or ANYTHING Shel Silverstein
Cierra – not sure if you have read the comments ( I know there are a lot) but there is a good discussion about it in there with differing opinions. I will address it in the follow up . I love Silverstein’s poetry but after re reading the giving tree I remembered why I have never before shared it with my kids. I am not the book’s biggest fan.
The Room of Wonders by Sergio Ruzzier is one of our favorite books. It is sad but he finds his happiness in the end and learns his lesson.
Shhh! by Jeanne Willis is great too! It teaches kids their actions make a difference, even their silence. It’s a call for world peace.
♥ them both and no matter how old my kids get I think I will be keeping these two on my bookshelf.
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What a great list. We LOVE books!!!!! One of our favs that I didn’t see here is Woolbur by Leslie Helakoski and Lee Harper. Woolbur is a young sheep who does things his own way and ignores criticism until everyone joins him. Great story!!!
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Looks like a great list but I’m curious about “Let’s Them Play” I googled it and found nothing. Is it a book on bad grammar?
It’s a lesson in writing blog posts at 2am and a simple typo but thanks for pointing it out. Here’s a link to the book http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1585362603?ie=UTF8&tag=notifoflca-20&linkCode=shr&camp=213733&creative=393185&creativeASIN=1585362603&ref_=sr_1_2&qid=1335968295&sr=8-2
I love Patricia Polacco. Thank You, Mr. Falker and Thundercake are two of my favorites. The intergenerational themes, poignant relationships, and rich language and illustrations make her books a feast for the mind, soul, and eyes.
Thank you for your great list of books! I also appreciate your helpful comments about “Pinkalicious” I have never liked that book, and now I can see the good part of it and it is great to see it in a new way!
Would you please put on your next list, “Frog and Toad”? My kids and I have loved the sweet simple example of being good friends. Thanks!
I am so glad you found that helpful. I will add Frog and Toad to the follow up post!
A couple books I always use as a “beginning of the year” openers is “Enemy Pie” by Derek Munson and “Thank You Mr Falker” (which always makes me tear up) by Patricia Polacco.
I didn’t see “Ferdinand’ on the list. It is one of my favorites. Great list, thanks for sharing.
The Boy Who Cried Over Everything is a good book about controlling emotions.
My mom used to read me Sylvester and the magic pebble. It is now my son’s favorite book.
Sylvester & The Magic Pebble is also Shel Silverstein and, like the epic bummer that is The Giving Tree, is also pretty depressing. Much of the book dwells on Sylvester’s parents’ grief as they mourn the mysterious and tragic loss of their son. My own son asks for it from time to time, even though it makes him sad, and I never look forward to reading it because the subject is about the last thing a parent wants to dwell on.
Ok now I Have to read that too. I love that so many books have such a strong reaction ( positive or negative) with people. I have been putting off the follow up post to this one because the list is getting so long but I want to read each with at least one of my kids. This story sounds like it would put my son into hysterics. He bawled after I rad ” Mama for Owen” which is about loss. We’ll see I might read it solo.
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I did read all the posts and hope that I don’t repeat but off the top of my head, I would definitely include:
Pete the Cat by Eric Litwin – Things happen but it’s not worth crying or being upset.
Pete the Cat: Rocking in my School Shoes by Eric Letwin – All about starting in a new school.
Little Blue Truck by Alic Schertle – Helping others. It’s done in rhyme and my two year old loves it.
No Matter What by Debi Gliori – Our parents love us not matter what we do, or if we loose our tempers. It also talks about how it takes time and effort to mend broken feelings. Both my kids favourite book.
Hunter’s Best Friend at School by Laura Malone Elliott – What to do if a friend is trying to make you do something that makes you feel bad about yourself or is wrong.
Picture Books for Teens and Up:
Pish Posh Said Hieronymus Bosch by Nancy Willard – Amazing Artwork! This book talks about how life may not be as you planned but it can still be fulfilling and you can make new plans. Definitely not for young children although my kids love the artwork. I’ve given it to adults who are going through a transition or tough time and I’ve always had very sincere and heartfelt thanks.