It’s interesting since I wrote this I have been thinking more about it – usually when a new comment comes or I see it scroll past on Pinterest. The list is important to scan, and for parents who will do nothing unless it’s on the list. Really this post was for the over-anxious, over prepared, overly type a parent who is stressing when they don’t need to. Thinking about it, it really comes from a place of privilege to be that stressed. So while I agree that the list isn’t needed for that sub-set of people, it is essential for some. I don’t doubt you need to remind parents to read, it makes me so sad, but I believe it.

Umm, not actually correct. Some parents (usually those of benefits or having being identified as needing extra support) are being offered childcare at 2.
There is no obligation to send your child anywhere til they are 5 or 6 (depends where in the UK)
I’m all for a relaxed approach to education in under 6s and for this reason elected not to send my eldest until she was over 4.
I love that my preschool nursery held great induction meetings and were absolutely adamant that they had no standard checklist, no must have criteria, and had a relaxed, positive and fun approach to life and learning. I know all establishments aren’t created equal but I guess if you can choose carefully one that meets your philosophy as close as possible then you are hitting the ground running anyway.
I completely support the premise of this post…go with the flow, your child will pick up on your anxiety and that’s not a great start for anyone!