I am a staunch believer that kids NEED time off. They need time to dig in the dirt for no reason other than digging in the dirt. However, people ask me, year after year, to put together a list of things parents can do to get their kids ready for preschool and kindergarten. These five things are the things I would tell my own friends they should do to get their kids ready to go to or go back to school. So I am sharing it with you. Getting kids ready doesn’t have to be stressful or expensive but we do need to take time to prepare our kids. This is just the tip of the iceberg if you want a much more in-depth look at what kids really need, check out my dear friend Deborah J. Stewart’s new book Ready For Kindergarten.
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1. Read!
Reading doesn’t only help teach your child to read it also works on many of the other things on this list. Listening and taking turns are two obvious lessons children can learn while reading with a parent but what I love most is that reading a book can often open up a dialogue. This is so important. Opening up a dialogue like this lets kids express worries and other challenges they are facing.
Try books about school to get your child to open up about how they are feeling and their needs regarding going to or back to school. Further down are more book suggestions for tougher issues like anxiety, bullying, and standing up for yourself. For older children reading over the summer is imperative but if you have let it slide jump back on the reading train now so your child is ready to go back to the class with the same ability they left with.
Starting Preschool For The First Time
- Maisy Goes to Preschool: A Maisy First Experiences Book
by Lucy Cousins
- Little School
by Beth Norling
- My Preschool
by Anne Rockwell
Kindergarten
- Kindergarten Rocks!
by Katie Davis
- Kindergarten Countdown by Anna Jane Hays
- On the Way to Kindergarten
by Virginia Kroll
- Kindergarten Diary
by Antoinette Portis
General School Books
- Follow the Line to School
by Laura Ljungkvist
- David Goes To School
by David Shannon
- I Love School!
by Philemon Sturges
For the full reviews of these and more books check out our Book Section.
2. Practice Listening.
If your child isn’t used to a group setting or has been out of it since the school year ended practicing listening is a great idea. It can be very challenging for young kids to wait their turn to speak especially when excited and sometimes it doesn’t matter how many times we reminded them their impulse control is just not there yet. Work on listening in fun playful ways.
3. Practice self-reliance.
Open yogurt tubes, zip jackets, tie shoes, etc… a good rule of thumb is to only send your kids with things they can manage themselves. Teachers are happy to help but whenever a teacher is helping a child zip a coat, tie shoes, etc… that might be time away from teaching. Multiply that by 10, 15, 20 kids and it adds up.
- Try a get ready for school obstacle course. Line up your kids in their bathing suits and have them race to get dressed, get their shoes on, lunch put in the backpack, and to the finish line. Race against the clock not each other if the skill level is drastically different.
- Wood Lacing Sneaker
for tying practice. This is almost identical to the one I learned on in 1982 and I like how stable it is.
- I love this Learn To Dress Monkey
for practicing buttons, zippers, and snaps.
4. Talk about differences, bullying, and standing up for yourself.
School can be an anxious place for some kids and talking about that before hand can help. The following books are some of my favorites for these subjects:
Bullying:
- Spaghetti in A Hot Dog Bun: Having the Courage to Be Who You Are
by Maria Dismondy
- Stand Tall, Molly Lou Melon
by Patty Lovell
- The Juice Box Bully: Empowering Kids to Stand Up For Others
by Bob Sornson and Maria Dismondy
School Anxiety:
- I Don’t Want to Go To School!
by Stephanie Blake
- Wemberly Worried
by Kevin Henkes
- The Kissing Hand
by Audry Penn
- Jake Starts School by Micheal Wright
Being Yourself:
- Chrysanthemum
by Kevin Henkes
- The Story of Ferdinand
by Munro Leaf
- Stephanie’s Ponytail
by Robert Munsch
Troubles with Friends:
- Pink Tiara Cookies For Three
by Maria Dismondy
- It’s Mine!
by Leo Lionni
5. Do some fun more learning activities to get into or back into the swing of things.
Being ready for school in the early years ( preschool – 1st grade ) is much less about what kids know and much more about having them ready to learn. Making sure that they are emotionally stable to be away from the home for the length of time that they will, giving them confidence and tools to handle issues, and being ready to work in a large group where their needs will not be met as immediately as they are at home. That said doing some fun learning activities won’t hurt! Here are some of my favorites for each age group. You can also have fun by making Alphabet Crafts – my ebook .
- Preschool
Magic Letters
Shape Crafts
Alphabet Playdough
Shell Math Game
Peel & Pick Alphabet Apple Tree
Counting Around The House
- PreK
Silly Ways To Teach Print Awareness
Letter Sorting Tree
Shape Art
Letter Dominoes
Pattern Towers
Move & Groove Letter Game
Font Collages
Hanging Out The Wash Math Game
- Kindergarten and 1st Grade
Connect The Dots Math
Sight Word Dominoes
Spelling With Beads
Paint & Read
Sight Word Game
Secret Code Math
shannons bookworms says
great post and I agree I’m a firm believer in spending summer being kids and exploring. We read and they play school every day but we don’t do “school”.
love the pictures!
Holli says
I love these ideas, especially the talking about bullying. Great one to include. I shared my 5 tips this week as well, though we have a few different ones as my boys are going for the first time to PDO/Preschool. (Yay!) I would love to invite you to share this at my Season’s Best {Back-to-School} Link-Up this month. Best wishes for a great start to the school year! Thanks!
JDaniel4's Mom says
I love your book list! What a great way to start the year.
Joyce says
Great post!
Henry Killingsworth says
I found it helpful when you explained that it is important to help your kids learn how to express their worries in order to help them be ready for school. My son will be starting kindergarten next year, and I am worried that he won’t be able to follow along with what the teacher will be teaching. I think it would be a good idea for me to find a daycare program to put him in that can help him be prepared for kindergarten.
Thomas Clarence says
I love your tip about preparing a getting ready for school obstacle course when trying to get your kids ready for the day. My two daughters will be starting preschool next year, and I am not sure that my wife and I are ready for the morning routine that we will need to follow. Practicing with an obstacle course seems like it could be a fun way for us to be prepared.